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“A single person is missing for you, and the whole world is empty.”
“To free us from the expectations of others, to give us back to ourselves – there lies the great, singular power of self-respect.”
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“Grammar is a piano I play by ear.”
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“It kills me when people talk about California hedonism. Anybody who talks about California hedonism has never spent a Christmas in Sacramento.”
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“Life changes in the instant. The ordinary instant.”
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“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.”
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“We tell ourselves stories in order to live.”
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“Was it only by dreaming or writing that I could find out what I thought?”
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“I write entirely to find out what I’m thinking, what I’m looking at, what I see and what it means. What I want and what I fear.”
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“New York was no mere city. It was instead an infinitely romantic notion, the mysterious nexus of all love and money and power, the shining and perishable dream itself.”
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“Character — the willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life — is the source from which self-respect springs.”
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“We forget all too soon the things we thought we could never forget.”
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“You have to pick the places you don’t walk away from.”
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“You had to feel the swell change. You had to go with the change. He told me that. No eye is on the sparrow but he did tell me that.”
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“To free us from the expectations of others, to give us back to ourselves–there lies the great, singular power of self-respect.”
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“Late afternoon on the West Coast ends with the sky doing all its brilliant stuff.”
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“That was the year, my twenty-eighth, when I was discovering that not all of the promises would be kept, that some things are in fact irrevocable and that it had counted after all, every evasion and every procrastination, every mistake, every word, all of it.”
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“My only advantage as a reporter is that I am so physically small, so temperamentally unobtrusive, and so neurotically inarticulate that people tend to forget that my presence runs counter to their best interests.”
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“A place belongs forever to whoever claims it hardest, remembers it most obsessively, wrenches it from itself, shapes it, renders it, loves it so radically that he remakes it in his own image.”
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“Novels are like paintings, specifically watercolors. Every stroke you put down you have to go with. Of course you can rewrite, but the original strokes are still there in the texture of the thing.”
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“Innocence ends when one is stripped of the delusion that one likes oneself.”
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“In many ways, writing is the act of saying ‘I,’ of imposing oneself upon other people, of saying, ‘Listen to me, see it my way, change your mind.’ It’s an aggressive, even a hostile act.”
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“I don’t know what I think until I write it down.”
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“We look for the sermon in the suicide, for the social or moral lesson in the murder of five. We interpret what we see, select the most workable of the multiple choices.”
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“Do not whine… Do not complain. Work harder. Spend more time alone.”
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“To believe in ‘the greater good’ is to operate, necessarily, in a certain ethical suspension.”
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“Read, learn, work it up, go to the literature. Information is control.”
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“Not much about California, on its own preferred terms, has encouraged its children to see themselves as connected to one another.”
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“I closed the box and put it in a closet. There is no real way to deal with everything we lose.”
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“The impulse to write things down is a peculiarly compulsive one, inexplicable to those who do not share it, useful only accidentally, only secondarily, in the way that any compulsion tries to justify itself.”
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“Memory fades, memory adjusts, memory conforms to what we think we remember.”
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“Of course, great hotels have always been social ideas, flawless mirrors to the particular societies they service.”
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“We forget all too soon the things we thought we could never forget. We forget the loves and the betrayals alike, forget what we whispered and what we screamed, forget who we were.”
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“The clothes chosen for me as a child had a strong element of the Pre-Raphaelite, muted greens and ivories, dusty rose, what seems in retrospect an eccentric amount of black.”
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“Life changes fast. Life changes in the instant. You sit down to dinner and life as you know it ends.”
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“Strength is one of those things you’re supposed to have. You don’t feel that you have it at the time you’re going through it.”
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“I could not count the times during the average day when something would come up that I needed to tell him. This impulse did not end with his death. What ended was the possibility of response.”
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“Memories are what you no longer want to remember.”
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“Grief is different. Grief has no distance. Grief comes in waves, paroxysms, sudden apprehensions that weaken the knees and blind the eyes and obliterate the dailiness of life.”
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“I’m totally in control of this tiny, tiny world right there at the typewriter.”
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“The ability to think for one’s self depends upon one’s mastery of the language.”
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“The apparent ease of California life is an illusion, and those who believe the illusion real live here in only the most temporary way.”
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“Water is important to people who do not have it, and the same is true of control.”
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“We imagine things – that we wouldn’t be able to survive, but in fact, we do survive. We have no choice, so we do it.”
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“I am a writer. Imagining what someone would say or do comes to me as naturally as breathing.”
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“I start a book and I want to make it perfect, want it to turn every color, want it to be the world. Ten pages in, I’ve already blown it, limited it, made it less, marred it. That’s very discouraging. I hate the book at that point.”
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“What makes Iago evil? Some people ask. I never ask.”
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“When we start deceiving ourselves into thinking not that we want something… but that it is a moral imperative that we have it, that is when we join the fashionable madmen.”
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“It occurs to me that we allow ourselves to imagine only such messages as we need to survive.”
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“I have always wanted a swimming pool and never had one.”
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“One thing in my defense, not that it matters: I know something Carter never knew, or Helene, or maybe you. I know what “nothing” means, and keep on playing.”
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“You aren’t sure if you’re making the right decision – about anything, ever.”
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“Marriage is memory, marriage is time. Marriage is not only time: it is also, parodoxically, the denial of time.”
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“There’s a general impulse to distract the grieving person – as if you could.”
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“We imagined we knew everything the other thought, even when we did not necessarily want to know it, but in fact, I have come to see, we knew not the smallest fraction of what there was to know.”
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“Nothing I read about grief seemed to exactly express the craziness of it; which was the interesting aspect of it to me – how really tenuous our sanity is.”
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“I did not always think he was right nor did he always think I was right but we were each the person the other trusted.”
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“Quite often you want to tell somebody your dream, your nightmare. Well, nobody wants to hear about someone else’s dream, good or bad; nobody wants to walk around with it. The writer is always tricking the reader into listening to the dream.”
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“Why do you always have to be right. Why do you always have to have the last word. For once in your life just let it go.”
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“Americans are uneasy with their possessions, guilty about power, all of which is difficult for Europeans to perceive because they are themselves so truly materialistic, so versed in the uses of power.”
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“Time is the school in which we learn”
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“The West begins where the average annual rainfall drops below twenty inches. Water is important to people who do not have it, and the same is true of control.”
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“Writers are always selling somebody out.”
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“Was there ever in anyone’s life span a point free in time, devoid of memory, a night when choice was any more than the sum of all the choices gone before?”
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“I know what “nothing” means, and keep on playing.”
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“The writer is always tricking the reader into listening to their dream.”
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“It is often said that New York is a city for only the very rich and the very poor. It is less often said that New York is also, at least for those of us who came there from somewhere else, a city for only the very young.”
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“I don’t think anybody feels like they’re a good parent. Or if people think they’re good parents, they ought to think again.”
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“I have already lost touch with a couple of people I used to be…”
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“One of the things that happens to people in grief is they secretly think they’re crazy, because they realize they are thinking things that don’t make sense.”
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“I mean maybe I was holding all the aces, but what was the game?”
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“The truth is, it’s easier for me to write than talk… to express the state I’m in at any time.”
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“I am what I am. To look for reasons is beside the point.”
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“I no longer want reminders of what was, what got broken, what got lost, what got wasted.”
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“There was a level on which I believed that what had happened remained reversible”
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“To those of us who remained committed mainly to the exploration of moral distinctions and ambiguities, the feminist analysis may have seemed a particularly narrow and cracked determinism.”
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“Everything goes. I am working very hard at not thinking about how everything goes.”
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“It took me a couple of years after I got out of Berkeley before I dared to start writing. That academic mind-set – which was kind of shallow in my case anyway – had begun to fade.”
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“The future always looks good in the golden land, because no one remembers the past.”
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“I do have a strong sense of an order in the universe.”
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Medium Joan Didion Quotes on Love
“I wanted to get the tears out of the way so I could act sensibly.”
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“Ask anyone committed to Marxist analysis how many angels dance on the head of a pin, and you will be asked in return to never mind the angels, tell me who controls the production of pins.”
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“Above all, she is the girl who ‘feels’ things, who has hung on to the freshness and pain of adolescence, the girl ever wounded, ever young. Now, at an age when the wounds begin to heal whether one wants them to or not, Joan Baez rarely leaves the Carmel Valley.”
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“Once I get over maybe a hundred pages, I won’t go back to page one, but I might go back to page fifty-five, or twenty, even. But then every once in a while I feel the need to go to page one again and start rewriting.”
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“There was silence. Something real was happening: this was, as it were, her life. If she could keep that in mind she would be able to play it through, do the right thing, whatever that meant.”
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“Of course, you always think about how it will be read. I always aim for a reading in one sitting.”
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“That no one dies of migraine seems to someone deep in an attack as an ambiguous blessing.”
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“I know why we try to keep the dead alive: we try to keep them alive in order to keep them with us.”
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“I could tell you that I came back because I had promises to keep, but maybe it was because nobody asked me to stay.”
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“The fear is for what is still to be lost.”
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“By the end of the week, she was thinking constantly about where her body stopped and the air began about the exact point in space and time that was the difference between Maria and other.”
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“Keepers of private notebooks are a different breed altogether, lonely and resistant rearrangers of things, anxious malcontents, children afflicted apparently at birth with some presentiment of loss.”
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“Mourning has its place but also its limits.”
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“We tell ourselves stories in order to live. We live entirely by the impression of a narrative line upon disparate images, the shifting phantasmagoria, which is our actual experience.”
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“The past could be jettisoned . . . but seeds got carried.”
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“There’s a point when you go with what you’ve got. Or you don’t go.”
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“It is easy to see the beginnings of things, and harder to see the ends.”
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“Let me just be in the ground. Let me just be in the ground and go to sleep.”
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“Leis go brown, tectonic plates shift, deep currents move, islands vanish, rooms get forgotten.”
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“How could this have happened when everything was normal?”
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“When I am near the end of a book, I have to sleep in the same room with it.”
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“When we talk about mortality we are talking about our children.”
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“We still counted happiness and health and love and luck and beautiful children as “ordinary blessings.”
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“Until now I had been able only to grieve, not mourn. Grief was passive. Grief happened. Mourning, the act of dealing with grief, required attention.”
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“In Brentwood, we had a big safe-deposit box to put manuscripts in if we left town during fire season. It was such a big box that we never bothered to clean it out.”
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“Alcohol has its own well-know defects as a medication for depression but no one has ever suggested – ask any doctor – that it is not the most effective anti-anxiety agent yet known.”
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“Tell me what matters,” BZ said. Nothing,” Maria said.”
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“We write to discover what we think.”
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“There is no real way to deal with everything we lose.”
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“Another thing I need to do, when I’m near the end of the book, is sleep in the same room with it…Somehow the book doesn’t leave you when you’re asleep right next to it.”
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